"Open Your Mind to Achieve Your Life Goals"

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Self-awareness and cognitive blind spots are the two major obstacles to achieving life goals.

The result of these two obstacles is that we often insist we are right, ultimately ending in anger. If two people have different viewpoints, then only one can be wrong, and that person is definitely not you, right? In such cases, it is usually difficult for both parties to reach an agreement.

We have two selves within us: a higher self and a lower self. When we have emotions, the lower self defeats the higher self and takes control of our brain.

So how do we elevate ourselves to the higher self? First, we must consider ourselves as ordinary people and believe that we do not have good solutions, so we should focus more on how to deal with the "unknown."

All decisions consist of two steps: first analyze all relevant information, then decide. Listen to others' viewpoints without worrying about your image; just focus on how to achieve your goals. You must highly accept where you are wrong and encourage others to tell you where you are wrong.

Seek the best answer, not just the best answer you can come up with. Use trustworthy thinking to assess the credibility of information. If you are looking to buy a house, advice from someone who has bought a house carries credibility weight; if the person has never bought a house, their words may need to be devalued.

You need to understand that it is not about proving you are right, but about figuring out who is right and deciding what to do.

So how do we identify whether we are right, the other person is right, or if we are both wrong?

We need to examine the state of our brain; the following points can help you better identify:

I won't write too much today; most of the content above comes from the book "Principles." When we face the unknown, our first feeling is fear, followed by the belief that I am right and you are wrong, which helps us maintain our own comfort.

An open mind will make us better and better.

Recommendations:

It's better to be low-key.

Discuss the recent public statements of three big figures.

Only by embracing reality can you become better.

A girl born in 1999 said: Sometimes life is more important than a job.

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